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Dedicated to Bart, who had the Most Beautiful Tail

"It's very simple. Dogs and cats and other talented animals have tails; their tails, with their thousands of flourishes, provide them with a wonderfully complex language of arabesques, not only for what they think and feel and suffer, but for every mood and vibration in their feeling tone. We have no tails, and since the more lively among us need some form of expression, we make ourselves paintbrushes and pianos and violins..."

Hermann Hesse


Monday, December 8, 2008

The Day Bart Adopted Me



In September 1997 I was ready to adopt my first Rescue Dog. Indeed, this would be the first dog ever for my husband, Moe, and me.

I’d done my homework, researching breeds carefully, learning about the many responsibilities of dog ownership. I’d spent several months looking and contacted a number of likely sources. I knew that I wanted to adopt a rescue dog, versus purchasing one from a breeder.

But there were some hiccups: The dog I wanted, a purebred Cardigan Welsh Corgi (CWC) female, age 1-3 years, preferably black and white, was exceedingly rare as a rescue dog. In fact, at that time the Cardigan Welsh Corgi was still quite rare. There were few breeders, and fewer still in my geographic area. There were less than 10,000 of these dogs in the U.S.

In addition, I would later learn that there are many more corgis for rescue in the “middle” states, due to the preponderance of puppy mills. Here in the San Francisco Bay area in California, corgis in rescue were very rare. In fact, that is still true, relative to many other parts of the U.S. In short, the purebred Cardigan is almost never to be found in my area as an available rescue dog.

As part of my search I’d subscribed to the Corgi-L Listserver and posted my intent to adopt a corgi. After nearly four months of looking without a single lead, someone on that List posted that she’d seen a male corgi-mix recently at a dog park in San Francisco. It turned out the dog was a foster dog available for adoption. She didn’t know what the other breed(s) in the mix might be and there was no picture.

It had never entered my head to look for a corgi mix, and I didn’t think I wanted a male. (I thought that the female would be less dominant – shows what I knew.) But, given that it was the only lead I’d come across, I had nothing to lose by checking this guy out.

On Thursday evening I made the trip. Arriving at the small house in the Lower Sunset District, I rang the bell. The foster person, Georgette, brought Bart out to the front yard. I took one look at him and the little voice in my head said, “Oh, he’s not what I’m looking for at all.”

Bart was primarily black, with white markings on his chest and feet, and copper points. Later I would learn that his coloration was a classic pattern associated with the Australian Shepherd. Bart was a Corgi/Aussie mix. But I didn’t know that then, and neither did the private rescue organization that had pulled him from the San Francisco shelter.

In short, I was looking for a two-year-old female, purebred Cardigan Welsh Corgi. Bart was a five-year-old male corgi mix. Not a fit. But I figured I should at least be polite so I asked the foster person, “Has he had any obedience training?” She replied that he’d had no training when she first got him, but she’d been working with him. “He knows to come to his name now and how to sit.”

To test her statement, I looked over at Bart, who was sniffing around the front lawn, completely oblivious to my presence. I called his name, “Bart.” Immediately he looked up, spotted me, and came trotting over. Upon reaching me he stopped, directly in front of me, sat down right at my feet, facing me. In an instant he threw his head back, and burst into the biggest grin imaginable.

This was the first picture of Bart I ever took. This is exactly what he did the first time we met. It is the Bart Smile!

In that instant all of my previous “requirements” vanished. There was no one else in my world except this happy, affectionate animal. In that moment I knew that finding a two-year old, purebred, female Cardi wasn’t important. All that mattered was this wonderful dog that really needed a good home.

 As I bent to pet him, Bart rolled onto his back and presented his belly. Belly rubs were a big favorite and he had to be sure I knew how to do it right. Clearly I passed the test. Bart had picked me.

But that’s not the end of the story: Being the conscientious sort that I am, I thought that I needed to “think about it” before committing to take Bart. As well, my husband hadn’t seen him. So I went home - without my dog.

For the next two days all we did was talk about Bart. I was so excited, but unsure if he was really “the one.” Finally, on Saturday evening Moe turned to me and said, “I don’t know what you’re waiting for. You know Bart is Your Dog. Just go get him!” And on Sunday we did. That was September 7, 1997.

For the next eleven years Bart was always by my side; a true Velcro dog to the end. From that first moment he had picked me. I was his Person, he was My Dog. There will never be another who will touch my heart so deeply. He was incredibly smart, sweet, and dedicated. He taught me more than I ever thought possible.

On December 3, 2008, at the age of sixteen, Bart’s body could no longer offer him the quality of life he deserved. Tearfully we let him go, but I know he will remain with me forever in spirit. As I told him many times, he’s the Most Wonderful Dog in the World. I will love him forever.


Friday, December 5, 2008

The End of a Difficult Week


These past few weeks have been really stressful. Watching Bart decline, feeling helpless to reverse it, and desperate to make things easier for him.  Just like Bart, I lost two pounds this week. I was too pre-occupied and anxious to eat.

Just as Denali & Elbee were asking for dinner, I looked out the window to see this sunset beginning to unfold. I think it might have been a little gift of peace. 

I ran out front and took a lot of shots. Bart would normally have been there with me, sniffing about and reinforcing ownership of his territory. Even though I walked back to the house alone, I like to think that Bart watched this along with me.









Thursday, December 4, 2008

Bart - So many Kind Wishes



In the past couple days we've received so many kind messages and blog comments, offering comfort and support for our loss of Bart. Thank you all. 

Today I was wishing that Bart could be young again and have another ten years ahead of him. Everywhere I look I am reminded of Bart. He used to inspect my shoes each morning to see if I was putting on the ones that meant I'd stay at home, versus those that took me away. It was obvious that he approved of those that kept me with him during the day. If the shoes required tying, he'd come and nudge me as I sat on the floor so I'd pet him instead of tying the laces. 

I remembered how fast he could run and how far he could jump. And how beautiful it was to see him sail through the air so effortlessly and with such grace. Thankfully, there are millions of those memories.

Sadly, there is no magic to turn back time and we must all go forward.  Knowing that there are others out there thinking good thoughts for Bart and for us, and truly understanding how painful this has been, is helpful.

We have received many lovely messages, including these:

Edie lit a candle in Bart's honor.


We are fortunate to have a wonderful veterinary practice near us. Dr. Kent Littlehale, Dr. Jennifer Lawrence and vet techs Andrea, Mica, Rachel, Lauren, Julie, and Mama Julie have lovingly and diligently cared for Bart from the time he joined our household eleven years ago.  

Yesterday Dr. Littlehale helped Bart over the Bridge around 9:00AM.  In the afternoon, this card arrived, accompanied by the flowers above. Moe and I were incredibly touched. There are no words to express our gratitude.



Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Bart - Journey Over The Bridge


A good run of 16 years, but today was the day
After a hard night, it was clear that the time had come for Bart to cross The Bridge.

No dog could have been more well-loved.

Or have given more love in return.

He's safely on the other side of the Bridge. He went, as he lived, with strength and dignity. He promised that he'd always watch over me. I have no doubt of it. I am his Person and he will always be My Heart Dog.

Rest in Peace sweet Bart. We'll love you Forever.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Bart-Dinner becomes a Challenge

Having an ancient dog with some sort of mystery stomach issue proves a real challenge when feeding. 

Bart tells me he's hungry. He comes roaming in the kitchen, clearly looking for food.

Here's the trick: When I give him food, he walks away. At meal time, here's what my counter looks like. I try all of his favorites. From one meal to the next, you never know what he will eat. Many times it is nothing. It is clear to me that his stomach is upset and it is causing food to seem distasteful to him. Nonetheless, he is hardly eating 1/8 of his normal daily quotient. 

I know that the meds I give him have the side effect of depressing appetite. Sigh... But without them he was unable to process his food properly...a real "no win." Ideally he will rally and be able to eat without the meds. But he's 16 years old and it may not happen this time. Time will tell.

Tonight he FINALLY ate some fresh cooked salmon (but only if it had the skin on it!). Needless to say, I was thrilled that he ate something, but I know it isn't enough. He's slowing down. There is a mystery bacteria at work here and we're unable to identify it. Gradually Bart is weakening and I know he hasn't much time left. In the meantime, if it means fresh salmon...so be it!

Bart - Enjoying the Comforts of Home


What dog doesn't like to sleep on the bed?

This morning Bart slept in, joined by the resident Pembroke Princess, Elbee.

Although she typically prefers her own dog bed nearby, this morning Elbee decided that Bart had a good thing going. "Now if you'd just take that camera away so I can sleep in peace!"

Later I brushed Bart for about an hour. He's always had a very thick, soft coat. Afterward I had the usual basketball-sized mass of undercoat and Bart's coat gleamed. Yes, he's certainly aged, but I still find him a very handsome fella!

Monday, December 1, 2008

Bart - A Better Day

Thanks to heavy drugs, Bart had a better day today. But the vet says he'll be up and down for the next couple of weeks. Each day is a gift. It is a relief to see him more comfortable and interested in life again. Today he had a nice little walk in the yard and was able to eat some small meals again.

His favorite place is with me in my home office. 

Today he rested comfortably on his bed while I worked.

Thanks to Denali's tailoring skills during her puppyhood, none of our many dog beds have covers with working zippers. Fortunately, Bart doesn't mind! He helped raise Denali so he knows what he's dealing with!